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Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: BrothaLove (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 02:43PM

YOU radical nut jobs with the violence argument turn my stomach. Look the only research I need is this: kids were routinely spanked a decades gone by, those times produced less violent and much more resptectful children. Kids, thanks to these nutballs with the "timeout" and "no cookie for you" attitude, are not spanked now and we see more violent and extremely disrespectful young people.

I, if ever blessed with children, will not spare the rod and hopefully my children will love me for it just as I appreciate the spankings my mother gave me.

signed
BrothaLove

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: toad (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 03:21PM

BrothaLove Wrote:
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> YOU radical nut jobs with the violence argument
> turn my stomach. Look the only research I need is
> this: kids were routinely spanked a decades gone
> by, those times produced less violent and much
> more resptectful children. Kids, thanks to these
> nutballs with the "timeout" and "no cookie for
> you" attitude, are not spanked now and we see more
> violent and extremely disrespectful young people.
>
> I, if ever blessed with children, will not spare
> the rod and hopefully my children will love me for
> it just as I appreciate the spankings my mother
> gave me.
>
> signed
> BrothaLove


AMEN BROTHA!

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: anonymous 3 (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 03:24PM

I must admit, I like a good spankin'. I'm always telling my husband "Mommy's been a bad girl."

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: Loving Mother (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 04:48PM

educated Wrote:
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> Ask anyone with a formal education in the field of
> children what their view is on spnaking, such as
> your doctor, guidence couselor, psychotherapist
> etc., they will tell you "NO SPANKING". I can
> gives names to back this up. It's not simply my
> experience or opinion. It is long term clinical
> studies and research.
>
> So stop trying to justify your guilt and make a
> new start today and stop spanking your child.



And I can provide names of counselors that feel spanking is exceptable. Different strokes for different folks. Regardless, the government should not have the ability to "forbid" punishment of a child, including spanking. Many of my adult friends have been spanked as children, they don't beat their children and their children do not act out and hit as a result.

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: Dr. Phil (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 05:59PM

Well the final word is in. Dr. Phil said it is never acceptable to spank a child. Also, I checked out parenting books from Barnes and Nobel and couldn't find in ANY book where spanking is acceptable. The only people that believe spanking is acceptable is people whose parent spanked them. It's a vicious cycle.

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: toad (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 06:22PM

anonymous 3 Wrote:
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> I must admit, I like a good spankin'. I'm always
> telling my husband "Mommy's been a bad girl."


Where were you 10 years ago ? *sigh*

Toad

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: My opinion (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 06:36PM

It may be a cycle....but if it works...go with it. My mother also told me I must eat all of my food before I could have dessert, to wash my hands after using the restroom, homework before playing with friends. These are methods of discipline, as is a spanking. It is a personal preference and the government should not be able to dictate your family beliefs.

Old Italian families use to have their children fetch a switch from a tree. The Italian men I know respect their parents more than any other nationality.

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: anonymous (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 07:15PM

Well, then name your counselors Loving mother. Just a couple of my sources are Dr. Nancy White, YSU prof, Dr. Beverly Grey YSU prof. Dr. Kesner, and anyone else in a field where they are educated in the subject. OK mouth, name yours. Also, you can verify these sources yourself, don't take my word for it.

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: BrothaLove (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 07:31PM

I really couldn't careless what a bunch of counselors have to say. Let them raise their children and run their own households. THey can stay the heck out of my household, my business and my family affairs. Spanking works, that's a fact. By the way, black folks use to make their children fetch a switch from the "switch tree" trust me I picked plenty of them before the age of 13, LOL.

signed
BrothaLove

Re: Experts: Ban on spanking a waste
Posted by: Hello (IP Logged)
Date: February 22, 2007 10:49PM

anonymous Wrote:
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> Well, then name your counselors Loving mother.
> Just a couple of my sources are Dr. Nancy White,
> YSU prof, Dr. Beverly Grey YSU prof. Dr. Kesner,
> and anyone else in a field where they are educated
> in the subject. OK mouth, name yours. Also, you
> can verify these sources yourself, don't take my
> word for it.


I know Dr. Kesner. Now your name again psycho???

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